Intervention Help - How To Set Up an Intervention for My Mom

Written By Stacy Plaisance

If your mom is struggling with addiction or mental health concerns, deciding to stage an intervention can feel overwhelming. But with the right approach, an intervention can be a powerful and compassionate first step in helping her begin her recovery journey. At Intervention Help, we specialize in guiding families through this emotional process with professionalism, care, and a deep commitment to the individual’s dignity and autonomy. Here’s how you can take the initial steps to set up an intervention for your mom.

1. Recognize the Need for an Intervention

An intervention is appropriate when your mom’s behavior has begun to impact her health, relationships, or overall quality of life—and efforts to talk to her about these issues haven’t been effective. Signs may include:

  • A noticeable decline in physical or mental health.

  • Increased isolation or withdrawal from family and friends.

  • Behavioral changes such as mood swings or irritability.

  • Difficulties at work, home, or in social settings.

Acknowledging that your mom needs help can be difficult, but it’s an essential first step toward creating meaningful change.

2. Consult with a Professional Interventionist

Before planning anything, reach out to an experienced interventionist. At Intervention Help, we offer a comprehensive consultation to understand your mom’s unique situation. Led by Stacy Plaisance, with over 20 years of experience in intervention and recovery, our team tailors each intervention to meet the specific needs of the person of concern and their family. This ensures that the intervention process is both effective and respectful.

3. Assemble the Right Team

The success of an intervention often depends on the support team you build. Choose family members and close friends who:

  • Have a positive relationship with your mom.

  • Can remain calm and nonjudgmental during emotionally charged moments.

  • Are genuinely committed to her recovery.

With the guidance of Intervention Help, your team will participate in pre-intervention meetings to prepare for the process and learn how to approach your mom with empathy and respect.

4. Develop a Thoughtful Plan

Planning an intervention is about more than picking a date and time. It involves:

  • Crafting a Script: Each participant should prepare a statement that expresses love and concern without assigning blame. This ensures the tone remains constructive and supportive.

  • Selecting a Location: The intervention should take place in a neutral, private space where your mom feels safe.

  • Anticipating Reactions: With the help of your interventionist, plan for different scenarios, including possible resistance or denial.

5. Choose an Approach That Respects Your Mom’s Autonomy

At Intervention Help, we specialize in non-confrontational methods like the ARISE approach. This method emphasizes collaboration and respect, creating a supportive environment where your mom feels encouraged—not forced—to take the next step toward recovery. By focusing on her autonomy and comfort, we can foster a more positive and lasting outcome.

6. Conduct the Intervention

On the day of the intervention, create an atmosphere of calm and support. Follow the plan and script developed during the pre-intervention meetings. Be prepared to listen and respond to your mom’s concerns with understanding. Your interventionist will guide the process to ensure the conversation remains focused and productive.

7. Present Clear Next Steps

It’s essential to have a clear plan in place for what happens after the intervention. This may include:

  • Presenting treatment options.

  • Offering immediate support for logistics, such as transportation to a treatment center.

  • Setting boundaries if she chooses not to accept help.

Our team at Intervention Help ensures these options are well-researched and aligned with your mom’s needs, preferences, and circumstances.

8. Follow Through

Recovery is a journey, not a one-time event. Whether your mom agrees to treatment immediately or needs time to process, ongoing support is crucial. Intervention Help remains a resource for families, offering guidance and encouragement throughout the recovery process.

Compassionate Support Every Step of the Way

At Intervention Help, we understand how difficult it can be to confront these challenges within your family. That’s why we prioritize an approach that minimizes stress and respects the dignity of everyone involved. By partnering with us, you can feel confident that you’re taking a compassionate and effective step toward helping your mom find the hope and healing she deserves.

If you’re ready to set up an intervention or have questions about the process, contact us today. Together, we can guide your mom toward a brighter future.